Archive for October, 2009

Visiting UNC at Chapel Hill (North Carolina)?

1) What hotels are the best to stay at that are near the UNC campus or the downtown area (I heard about like a Franklin street or something)

2) How far is Duke, NC State, and Wake Forest from the UNC campus?

3) How far is the Raleigh-Durham Airport from UNC Campus? in

4) What’s the weather like in a February?

5) Are there lots of basketball shops for gear of UNC nearby?

6) Anything else I should check-out?

7) THANKS


For hotels I would go to a site like aaamaps.com and enter UNC into the location. From there you can select to see hotels in the area. There’s a Residence Inn by Marriott and a Hampton Inn, that are near the campus (not walking distance though) There’s a few others, but those are the nicest ones, that don’t cost a fortune.
Franklin St, is the main street where everyone goes out, bars, shops and restaurants and yes lots of UNC gear. Top of the Hill is probably the most popular hang out.

Duke is about 15-20 mins, NC State 40 mins, Wake Forest 1 1/2 hours

From RDU airport to UNC is about 20-25 mins

Weather is usually pretty cold, but no snow. I would say 30s-40s

Chapel Hill is a beautiful campus and the surrounding area is pretty nice too…Duke is a beautiful campus but is surrounded by ghetto, NC State is spread out all over the place and is very close to downtown Raleigh, therefore its not the best surroundings either. Wake Forest is a pretty campus but the city of winston-salem is blagh and sketchy.

You could always try and get basketball tickets while you are in town…its def right in the heart of ACC basketball country and people are hardcore fans. If you like hockey, the hurricanes are nearby. The Streets at Southpoint is the closest mall to UNC, lots of shops, restaurants but basically just a typical mall. My fav place to eat is Kanki, japanese steak just down the road from chapel hill in Durham. There’s really nothing super exciting about the triangle area, esp in February.

I don’t know where you are coming from to visit the campus, but a few notes that may help. (I’m a northerner that moved to the area after college)
If you go out at night, the college kids do not dress the same as they do up north…guys dress like douchebags in khakis and polo shirts, and deck shoes, girls wear sundresses and pearl earrings…people cannot drive in the south, they are horrible…be extra careful if it’s cloudy and super extra careful if it’s raining..people crash their cars at the sight of a raindrop. All the major highways have 4’s or 5’s in them, so it can get confusing. I lived there for 2 years and I still never figured out the inner and outer belt.

Generally, it doesn’t feel as southern as other areas because you have so many northern transplants at the universities and also RTP which is an area that houses the headquarters of major companies like IBM and GlaxoSmith Kline.

Hope you have fun!

| Oct 29, 2009

Homosexuals what do you think of this?

As early as 1858, G. Tardieu reported on the age distribution of males imprisoned in France for sodomy. Of the 216 who ages were given, the age range from under 15 to 69, with a median age of under 25. Eliminating all under 18, the median age rises to almost 40.

In 1914, M. Hirschfeld reported on German males convicted of involvement in sodomy. The age distribution ranged from under 15 to over 50, with the median of 24 years. Since "over 50" was the last category, we cannot determine just how many, if any, attain the age of 65. But only 9 % were over 50.

In the late 1930s and 1940s, Kinsey and his investigators spent more than 12 years seeking out and interviewing homosexuals. Because Kinsey and his colleagues were regarded as sexual liberators, homosexuals were eager to volunteer for his study. There is no reason to believe that his sample was not representative of all age groups available. Yet fewer than 1% of his homosexuals, male as well as female, were over the age of 65.

The Mattachine Society, the earliest of the "gay rights" organizations, gathered together a representative group of homosexuals for Evelyn Hooker to study in her highly influential 1950s study. The oldest of the 30 subjects was 50, the next oldest was 44, and the median age was 33.

In the early 1960s, Berger attempted to draw a sampling of elderly homosexuals, but had to begin his scale at 40 years and only 34 of 112 were over the age of 59,

From 1969 through 1970, the Kinsey Institute surveyed homosexuals in San Francisco. Although they recruited respondents in eight different ways, only 23% of male homosexuals and only 18% of lesbians were over the age of 45, despite the fact that the investigators tried for 25% from this age group. Their initial decision to draw only a quarter of their sampling from homosexuals over 45 indicates they already knew the problem existed, and they ended up omitting figures on age distribution from their report.

In 1977, the largest survey of homosexuals reported 0.2% of its lesbians and 0.8% of its homosexual males were age 65 or older.

The Spada Report: The Newest Survey of Gay Male Sexuality, in 1978, reported the median age was 30, with only 2.5% over age 65. J. Spada was openly homosexual and polled 1,022 male homosexuals by mail.

An openly lesbian M. Mendola, in 1979, polled 405 homosexuals by mail. The median age of those polled was 34, and only 10% were 50 or over. Source: The Mendola Report: A New Look at Gay Couples.

From the mid 1970s’ to the early 1980s, interest in Gay Bowel Syndrome, sexually transmitted diseases, and hepatitis B generated a number of samples of the homosexual population.

- From 1977 through 1979, 102 homosexuals case histories were collected in Seattle and the oldest was 58.

- In 1979, 101 homosexuals who belonged to a group restricted to those over 40 was reported, and only 21 were over age 65.

- Also in 1979, 5,324 homosexual visitors to Denver’s STD clinic had a median age of 27, a mean age of 28.5 and the oldest was 67.

- In 1982, only one of 103 homosexuals examined in San Francisco was over the age of 65.

In 1994, an obituary study revealed that the median age of death for homosexual males was 42 and for lesbians was 49. Source: Cameron, Playfair, Wellum, " The Longevity of Homosexuals: Before and After the AIDS Epidemic, " Omega Journal of Death and Dying," 1994.

Pedro Zamora, 22, a well-known AIDS educator and a cast member of "The Real World" on MTV, died of complications from AIDS today at Mercy Hospital in Miami. Partly because he was among few young people speaking out about AIDS, partly because of his heart throb looks and easy manner, Zamora became one of the most sought-after speakers on the disease after he tested positive for HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, in 1989 at the age of 17. He took his prevention message into American living rooms as a young gay man with HIV on "The Real World." He would tell students that he got the virus through unprotected sex and that he would probably not live to reach 30. Before a television appearance in New York last August, Zamora fell ill with a neurological disorder, progressive multifocal leukoencephalopathy, which causes rapid deterioration. He had been hospitalized since October 14th. Source: Mireya Navarro, "Life of 22 years ends, but not before many heard message on AIDS, The New York Times; November 12, 1994.

AIDS became the Leading cause of death among men from 25 to 44 in 1992 (in the U.S.). More than 250,000 people have died from AIDS or AIDS-related causes. About 75% of cases have been reported in the 25-to-44 age group. AIDS is also the leading cause of death in men and women in 79 of 169 American cities with population greater than 100,000. In the northeastern United States, where the rate of infection is higher among intravenous drug users than it is among gay men, the incidence of AIDS continues to rise. Although the AIDS epidemic seems to have stabilized among gay men in some areas of the country, there is evidence of a future second wave in that group, Dr. Jaffe said. He cited recent studies in San Francisco, Denver and Chicago showing an incidence of 2 to 3 % a year for new infections in gay men, a high number. Source: Lawrence K. Altman, " AIDS is now the leading killer of Americans from 25 to 44," The New York Times; January 31, 1995.

Nick Mattsson, as a gay man in his late 20’s, has never really known love or dating outside the shadow of AIDS and, though he knew few sick people, he associated being gay with getting AIDS and dying young. In San Francisco, two gay newspapers refused for a while to carry ads for HIV-negative groups, and in New York, there is much eye-rolling, if not outright hostility. "My lover was like: ‘What are you going to talk about,’" said one participant whose partner is HIV-positive. "Long-term retirement plans? 401(K)’s?" Despite optimism over available treatments, there will be no cure anytime soon. And with evidence that infection rates are rising among young men, the focus can no longer be solely on people with HIV. There is only one way, the thinking goes, to prevent another generation of gay men from dying.

Troy Masters, the publisher of LGNY, a biweekly lesbian and gay newspaper in New York, who is HIV-positive, said "It (is) cool to be HIV-positive and it shouldn’t be." Some will live, and others will die long before their time, and that the worries of men who do not have HIV are valid. Some of the (gay) men (coming into clinics or support groups) came in because they had a drug or alcohol problem, others because they were having unsafe sex, others because they just needed to talk about their lives as gay men and could not afford therapy.

Mattsson joined a group because he recognized that the sex he was having was unsafe and "out of control." Marc Davis, an equities analyst who is 29, joined (a group) largely because he was having an escalating problem with cocaine. Ben Stilp, 26, the communications director for the Lesbian and Gay Community Services Center, said he joined a group as a result of two strains in his life: a problem with drugs and, for the first time, meeting men who were infected. One, who became a good friend, was only 30. "This was going to be a battle for my life. And I would have to change some fundamental things about my life," said Stilp. Source: Ian Fisher, "To be young, gay, healthy…and alienated; New support Groups for the HIV-negative handle guilt, fear and isolation, The New York Times; July 14,1996

Life expectancy for a 20 year old gay or bisexual man is 8 to 20 years less than all men. The authors estimate that " nearly half of gay and bisexual men currently age 20 years will not reach their 65th birthday." Source: Hogg. RS., Strathdee, SA., Craib, KJP., O’Shaughnessy, MV., Montainer, JSG., Schechter, MT., " Modeling the impact of HIV Disease on Mortality in Gay and Bisexual Men," International Journal of Epidemiology, Vol. 26, No. 3, 1997, pp. 657-61.

In 1998, another study using four contemporary databases suggested that homosexual activity may be associated with a lifespan shortened by 20 to 30 years. Source: Cameron, P., Cameron, K., Playfair, WL., " Does Homosexual Activity Shorten Life? ", Psychological Reports, 1998, 83, pp. 847-66.

Conclusion:

Study after study reveals that homosexuality, whether male or female, can take anywhere from 10, 20 to 30 years off of someone’s lifespan. With all the attention on smoking, which the National Cancer Institute says takes from 7 to 10 years off someone’s life, why not the same human outcry on homosexuality? Here’s a behavior that’s killing people 2 to 3 times the rate of smoking, yet nobody seems to care. In fact, we are encouraging and affirming individuals into the "gay" lifestyle. If you truly love someone, you would steer them away from self-destructive behaviors, rather than towards them, shouldn’t you? Homosexuals need our tough love, not blind love, the kind of love that is going to love them no matter what they say and do. We must extend that helping hand and say " I think your worth saving, let’s work on it together."

 http://theroadtoemmaus.org/RdLb/22SxSo/P nSx/HSx/hosx_lifspn.htm
blearg the differences between black ro white, or male or female, is extremely small a couple of yeas, while between hetero and homo is a couple of decades long with increased risk to every single STD out there


Actually there is a lot of talk in the LGBT political movement of late about how to properly deal with and care for the older members of our community.

In part because as people mature their lifestyles tend to mature as well, and as the most easily visible place for LGBT gatherings tends to be the local gay bar which, as with most bars, tends to skew young. Previously, it was easy for older LGBT people to lose their connection to the visible community. With the growth of activism, LGBT centers, LGBT and LGBT welcoming churches, and other social activities the older members of our community are increasingly rising in visibility. It is also harder to find older straight people of any particular type.

The older someone is the more likely they have faced extreme levels of homophobia, including personal, financial and legal danger. The closet was by and far the rule as we go back in US history simply for the sake of survival. Until the day they died, my grandparents never threw food away because they had been through the great depression. Don’t you think the history of violent oppression might affect the visibility of older LGBT people?

In addition, across the country of late there has been a lot of talk and financial investment in LGBT retirement communities. Obviously some investors have determined that there will be enough interested in such things as to make the risk of investment worth it.

A quarter of the American population has an STD. Most LGBT people will never contract AIDS. Those who strictly engage in safe sex do not have any significant risk factors. Ever growing numbers of straight people are getting AIDS -in large part because religious conservatives continue to try to characterize the disease as gay, instead of teaching their own youth how not to contract the disease.

There has never been any serious attempt to determine the numbers of LGBT people in the US. In fact, conservative religious groups are currently fighting such efforts out of fear that the numbers will come back high enough to influence political decisions. But honestly tracking LGBT people at this time in history, and on general principle, would be very problematic. The most we could know is how many people were willing to check the LGBT box on a survey.

Your whole argument is actually an argument from the religious right disguised as secular reasoning. The premise of this basic argument is that LGBT orientations are unhealthy, unnatural and lead to a bad life

What are your 5 favorite songs off of Juju by Siouxsie & the Banshees?

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Juju_(Sioux sie_&_the_Banshees_album)

I love this album! It’s probably my favorite from SATB

Mine:
1. Spellbound
2. Halloween
3. Arabian Nights
4. Night Shift
5. Voodoo Dolly


Spellbound
Arabian Knights
Night Shift
Voodoo Dolly
Halloween

I haven’t listened to Siouxsie in awhile, thanks for the indirect suggestion!
:D

lelly is not dead | Aug 20, 2009


1. Arabian Nights
2. Spellbound
3. Into The Light
4. Night Shift
5. Head Cut
Venkman SPACS | Aug 20, 2009


into the light
head cut
night shift
voodoo dolly
halloween
Mike Gein | Aug 20, 2009


I love "Juju" by Siouxsie & the Banshees! They’re my favorite band and "Juju" is one of my top 5 favorite albums.

I love every song off the album, so my list is in no particular order.

1. Spellbound
2. Into The Light
3. Sin In My Heart
4. Head Cut
5. Voodoo Dolly
Stephen | Aug 22, 2009

What are the percentages of ownership for the Seattle Sounders FC?

i was asking such as how much percentage-wise does joe roth own of the sounders, and drew carey, etc…


Not sure who owns what, but I’m sure that it adds up to 100%.

Why do you care?

Spud | Jul 20, 2009


100% they suck
Angel Maquina | Jul 20, 2009


I wish I could tell you but I don’t watch american soccer/football.

77
FCB CFC | Jul 20, 2009


All i know is Joe Roth is the majority owner and Drew Carey, Adrian Hanauer, and Paul Allen are minority owners.
GoACanes87 | Jul 20, 2009

How do I make a good Philly Cheesesteak sandwich?

Don’t say drive to Philly! I live in TX. I’ve heard to cut up RibEye steak or buy SteakUmms. I don’t think I have access to steakumms frozen meat here as well.


Philly Cheesesteak Sandwich with Garlic Mayo

Ingredients-
1 cup mayonnaise
2 cloves garlic, minced

1 tablespoon olive oil
1 pound beef round steak, cut into thin strips
2 green bell peppers, cut into 1/4 inch strips
2 onions, sliced into rings
salt and pepper to taste
4 hoagie rolls, split lengthwise and toasted
1 (8 ounce) package shredded mozzarella cheese
1 teaspoon dried oregano

Preparation-
In a small bowl, combine mayonnaise and minced garlic. Cover, and refrigerate. Preheat oven to 500 degrees F (260 degrees C).
Heat oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Saute beef until lightly browned. Stir in green pepper and onion, and season with salt and pepper. Saute until vegetables are tender, and remove from heat.
Spread each bun generously with garlic mayonnaise. Divide beef mixture into the buns. Top with shredded cheese, and sprinkle with oregano. Place sandwiches on a baking pan.
Heat sandwiches in preheated oven, until cheese is melted or slightly browned.

"Olivia Loves Raoul" | Nov 20, 2007

What's more stylish, shower doors or shower curtains for todays modern American family?

I was informed that my shower door is outdated.
I see you are new, LiT. I will explain how it works. When I ask a question, you try to give a sensible answer. I have no interest in you opinions about my mental stability even if you have an advanced degree in psychiatry. Please review the rules of conduct.


Glass shower doors are what most people expect in newer more updated homes. That doesn’t mean that yours isn’t out of date and needs a refresh. Sometimes that means the shower itself needs to be updated. Clear doors are preferred over wavy glass and frameless doors even more so.

dawnb | Jun 28, 2009


we have a shower door, and i like it.
keep yours. who cares what they think?
Skylar | Jun 28, 2009


shower dooorr and more up to date but it is cheaper to go with shower curtains. it’s all what u are willing to spend
mysteriousman | Jun 28, 2009


It does not matter what it looks like as long as it hides that naked body if someone walks in and keeps water from getting on the floor.
thewendyjx | Jun 28, 2009


I use shower curtains because they don’t cost much. I do miss having a shower door because i can see more of what I’m doing when I’m in the shower as it lets more light in.
Slapnuhtz | Jun 28, 2009


Go to lowe’s or home depot check there style of bath cubicles.
gotAnswer | Jun 28, 2009


You sir, are insane.
LiT | Jun 28, 2009

how to watch the world series online?

for free , and no asking a test to watch it


Watch it on the TV…..
WDFOproductions | Oct 28, 2009


You can watch it in t.v. channel 13, or on the computer, you can just go to google type in "sports center", and click the first link called "ESPN: The Worldwide Leader In Sports". The game has to be live for you to see it, if it is not live, you can not see it. So if the game is live, there is a picture and the phillies and yankees are on the picture, click gamecast, and you can see it online.
Yc | Oct 28, 2009


I found a great site, http://2009worldseries.blogspot.com/ – They just ask you to fill out some stupid quiz but it’s worth it. I’m at work and this is the only site i can find that works!
rKo | Oct 28, 2009


 justin.tv!!!!!!
Dark Blue Knight | Oct 28, 2009


try here http://online-watch-live-streaming.blogs…;pot.com online.html
Eugene | Oct 28, 2009


10 Ways to Watch World Series Baseball Online for Free!

 http://techpp.com/2009/10/29/10-ways-to- watch-world-series-baseball-online-for-f ree/

Hope this helps :)
Raghu | Oct 28, 2009

what are some homemade halloween costumes that i could make at home?


do you know how to sew?
I saw a kid once dressed as a laundry basket super cute.
He had a basket cut in the middle and that was around his waist. Then there well clothes and dishwasing liquid in there.

Bigmomma | Oct 27, 2008


i was a tourist one year,
i got a bright button down shirt, like a Hawaiian shirt, khaki capris, high white socks, sandals, sunglasses, and camera around my neck.
simple and fun costume
happy halloween!
jonasfan | Oct 28, 2008

What are the most successful websites for social search?

MySpace, Facebook, Yahoo, Google, etc.?


I prefer Facebook. You are required to have a college e-mail address to become a member. Whereas everybody and their mom is on MySpace. Every other night, there is a news segment on how unsafe MySpace is. I think Facebook is for a more mature crowd of people who just want to stay in contact with friends.

TIYL | Apr 18, 2006

Can someone tell me where I can find Goodnight My Angel online?

I am a piano student…a junior. I am having a piano recital and I want to play Goodnight My Angel, by Billy Joel. I want some free sheet music online. But its like everywhere I turn, you have to pay with a credit card. I don’t have a credit card. So please if you can help me I would be very thankful.


go try here -

 http://www.wikifonia.org/sheet

 http://8notez.blogspot.com

 http://www.nuty.org.pl/

 http://myzipple.com/rival/?page_id=4

 http://pianoramic.blogspot.com

 http://www.freepianosheets.com/sheets.ph p

 http://www.take-a-piano-sheet-music-brea…;k.com

 http://www.tapartoche.com/

 http://pianolicious.blogspot.com/

Or another options is to get it from sheet music forums-
 http://write-a-melody.blogspot.com/

Good luck!

Jelutong | Dec 30, 2008