Blessed (2004) IMDB rating: 4.10 Plot: Heather Graham and James Purefoy play a couple who desperately want to have a baby. Unfortunately, she has been diagnosed as infertile, and the couple can’t afford the medical treatments that might allow her to conceive. Good fortune appears to be smiling on the couple when they are given an opportunity to receive free treatments at a mysterious fertility clinic. The woman is soon the expectant mother of twins, but as her due date draws nearer, she begins to suspect something is wrong, and that she has become the unwilling victim of a pact with evil.

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i have mother-in-law issues?
i am always arguing with my mother in law. my son is four months old. ever since he was born she has hounded me and my husband constantly. giving us unwanted advice and trying to take our son when we do not want her to. i am blessed to be able to stay at home and raise my children so i do not usually want/need a baby sitter. she constantly tells me how selfish i am and that i need to let go. she has seen him more than any other member of our extended families. at least 3 times a week since he was born. not only does she always hound us, but my husband has a large family! at least 3 other sets of people call us weekly wanting time with our son.

this is my actual question: those of you who are parents, how often do you let them spend time with other family members? am i being selfish?

i have tried to be understanding but i just wont cave when it comes to being with my son. if i want time with him, i dont understand why i am in the wrong for turning them down when i simply dont feel like having them intrude.

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I’m a stay at home mother as well to my 5 month old daughter. No one comes to see us, honestly that’s how i like it. I only go to my Mother-in-laws house once a week. and usually the rest of my husband family is there when i go there and that’s the time they get to see her. other wise im always home.
you are not being selfish! not at all! your trying to be a mother to your child but you MIL wont let you be that. tell her she had her turn raising her children! now its your turn! and if you have to call her up before she comes and lie! tell her your going out!
good luck~ be strong!!!!!!! dont let anyone walk all over you and try to be a mother to YOUR child!
izzy | Feb 01, 2010

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Grandparents should be given at least once a week visitation to their grandchildren. let the bonding start
tebone0315 | Feb 01, 2010

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You are not being selfish.They are just excited about the new baby.That’s all.Its their blood too and they want to see him and watch him grow up.A grandbaby is just as important to Grandma/Auntie etc as mom and dad are.

I am in love with my nieces and nephews.I couldn’t imagine going a while without seeing them.

How often do you guys let other family members visit with him? That could be the problem.I don’t agree with them hounding you constantly for some time with him.Perhaps you should set aside some time so he could visit with family? or maybe your husbands family should start having family dinners once a week so they can visit.Then, you have the rest of the week to be pest free.
nelawala | Feb 01, 2010